Honolulu Friends Meeting is the home of Friends on O'ahu and serves as the center for Quaker activities. Modest overnight accommodations are offered to traveling Friends and their families, to representatives of Quaker-related organizations, and to those visiting in direct support of Quaker social concerns. Donations are accepted.

In view of the current pandemic, we reserve the right to cancel.

We encourage you to have an alternate plan in case this happens.



HFM will only accept guests who have confirmed reservations (no walk-ins). The HFM Room Reservation REQUEST Form must be completed & returned to HFM via email or regular mail before BEFORE THE RESERVATION IS CONFIRMED by the resident couple.

To be in compliance with federal, state and local regulations, HFM may offer accommodations only to:

  • local or traveling Friends, (members and active attenders) and their families,

  • representatives of Quaker-related organizations, and

  • to those visiting in direct support of Quaker social concerns.

Stays are limited to 14 consecutive nights; only one 14-night stay is permitted in any six-month period.

A non-refundable deposit is required. HFM accepts cash, personal checks, money orders or PayPal/credit card.

  • For stays of seven days or less, the total amount is required.

  • For stays longer than seven days, a deposit for seven nights is required.

  • Please make the final financial settlement at least the day before departure.

  • If dates of a confirmed reservation are changed, the original reservation will be canceled.

Important Things to Know:

  • Certified service animals are the only animals allowed in the meetinghouse or guest facilities.

  • A complimentary simple breakfast is served promptly at 7:30 am. HFM regrets that special dietary needs cannot be accommodated.

  • Restaurants, a laundromat, banks, post office, supermarket & drug store are within a half mile walking distance at the Manoa Marketplace.

  • The meetinghouse laundry is only for use by resident caretakers.

  • The kitchen is not available to guests, nor are guests allowed to consume food and beverages other than water in the accommodations (HFM has monthly pest control).

  • Coolers with ice packs are available and may be swapped at breakfast.

  • On the day of departure, guests are expected to put all used linens in laundry bags within accommodations, and re-make their beds for the next guests.

  • Shoes must be removed when entering the Meetinghouse and accommodations.

  • Firearms, alcohol, drugs, and tobacco are not allowed on HFM property.

  • Open flames, including candles and incense, are not allowed on HFM property.

  • Young children must be supervised by their caregivers at all times.

  • Unless you have made previous arrangements with the resident couple, please park on the street by the meetinghouse. You may drive in the Meetinghouse driveway to drop off luggage; when exiting the driveway, please DON’T BACK OUT! Back onto the grass on either side of the bird of paradise bush to turn around and drive out facing forward.

  • There are fans (no air conditioning), nor television. Free WiFi is available.

Guests are welcome to join Sunday Worship (unprogrammed):

8:30 am: Meeting for Worship

10:00 am: Hybrid Meeting for Worship (in-person and via Zoom)

Book Nook

Behind carport, double bed and futon, private bathroom


Ground floor, four single beds,

shared bathroom

Guest Room

Main floor, double and single bed,

shared bath (shower not accessible)